Hopeful Ever After #013

September 2025

Hopeful Followers,

It is official – it is Fall. The days are getting shorter, the sun is setting sooner, and there are signs that our gardens are waning into the sleep of Winter. As you think about moving forward after your person’s death, think of this time of year as a time to reflect on yourself and the quietness of the closed windows and cooler days. You may not feel like it yet, but you do still have your “wings” that emerged in the Spring. I hope this month’s newsletter will inspire you to enjoy the colors of Fall, the change of what we wear, and the quieter sounds, and stillness of ourselves.

Sending Hugs,

Carolyn

A friend is one of the nicest things you can have and one of the nicest things you can be.”

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This Month’s Financial Tip

TIP: Read the prospectus of your investments prior to making these important decisions. Don’t pay too much. Exchange traded funds (ETFs) are generally the lowest cost option – outside of an insurance product.

We have been talking about fees for the last 2 newsletters. I promise this is the last one but an important one.

Internal fees: These are the fees that are hidden inside of mutual funds, exchange traded funds, and variable insurance products. They are the way the managers get paid and it includes the cost of operating these investments.
Generally, the most expensive of these products are the variable insurance products. If it is a variable annuity, it can include mortality and expense charges (M&E charges) are 1.0%-1.5%. In addition to those fees, there are underlying fund expenses that can be .25%-1.25% (the fund expenses are generally higher than funds that have the same names inside the insurance products.
Optional fees can include lifetime income fees which can add another 0.95-1.5%. You can also have surrender fees. Those are fees charged prior to the contract maturing. Generally, you can withdraw 10%/year surrender charge free. Guaranteed Death Benefits can add 0.25%-0.50%. Variable products are the most expensive.

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A Lesson from Joy

Our client, Joy, came to us with an IRA that had been invested in a Variable Annuity. We reviewed it.

Her mortality and expense fees were 1.5% per year; she also had bought an extra Death Benefit for 0.5% per year; the mutual funds that were invested averaged 0.95% per year.

Her total fees were 2.95%.

She had a surrender charge for 5 years beginning at 7% and declining to 0% after year 5. Fortunately, she had the contract for 6 years.

We discussed her options, we transferred the account out of the variable annuity into a Traditional IRA. We invested the account based on her current strategy.

The total fees internally were 0.05% per year. Our advisory fee was 1.0% per year. Her total fees were 1.05% which also included ongoing Financial Planning updates at no additional cost.

Her account automatically increased in returns by 1.9% per year. Please understand how you are investing in your accounts.

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I see this time of year as a time to go through my closet and organize what I want to keep and what I want to donate. Some of us store summer clothes and take our Fall and Winter clothes out of storage. Use these tips to help yourself.

I see this time of year as a time to go through my closet and organize what I want to keep and what I want to donate. Some of us store summer clothes and take our Fall and Winter clothes out of storage. Use these tips to help yourself.

Books Worth Reading

It’s Grief: The Dance of Self-Discovery through Trauma and Loss by Edy Nathan

Grief is our lifelong companion. This book helps you transform loss into growth and inner peace. Learn to enjoy the process. It is not all sad.

If something you read today made you think of another friend or family member, share this newsletter with them

This Month’s Recipe

Chicken Salsa Soup

1 Rotisserie Chicken – skin and bones removed, cut in pieces

6 cups of chicken broth

4 cups of your favorite salsa – any spice level

2 cans of black beans

2 cups of cooked rice (optional)

Serves 6-8

Mix all ingredients together in a soup pot. Bring to a boil. Simmer for 30 minutes. Serve with sour cream (or plain yogurt), avocado, and tortilla chips.

Enjoy!